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Delayed Grief?

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Ever experienced it?

It's the first phrase that springs to mind when I tear up at seemingly random times.

Usually when walking or cycling.

Alone in nature with my imagination.

Memories of my mother appear, and I cry.

But I don't feel sad, per se.

It doesn't really feel like anything I can put into words.

"Emotional"?

A kind of 'happy melancholiness'?

It usually ends with a smile.

But how to explain it?

I feel like 'delayed grief' is as good an excuse as any.

"Why are you crying?"

"Oh, it's just delayed grief"

I might try that one next time.

My friend has a tendency to tell people I have a neurological condition whenever I fall over in public.

Now I have another excuse for the other awkward thing I do. .